The curious case of my crazy cat

Three weeks ago, when Abet’s friend Mario, a fellow cat-lover and the one who gave us Josie and Ludwig, came over to pick some stuff up, he saw Phoebe and exclaimed that she was pregnant. Abet and I were in shock and in denia! How could that be? She’s only six months old and looks every bit a baby! She can’t be pregnant!

We then recalled that three weeks before that, during Earth Hour, Phoebe managed to escape. She was gone for less than two hours and had a scratch on her face when we found her outside our door. Other than the time she crawled out our window and into our neighbor’s window, that was the only time she got out. As it turns out, that was all the time she needed to get knocked up, because sure enough, a few days after Mario ‘diagnosed’ her pregnancy, Phoebe’s belly grew bigger, and her nipples swelled and turned pink, a tell-tale sign of feline pregnancy. I checked Sophie’s nipples regularly last January after she escaped to mate, so I know how preggy kitty nipples look like.

It took days for the fact that Phoebe was pregnant to sink in. Abet could barely accept the fact that Phoebe went in heat at 5 months, much less get pregnant at 6 months. We joked that maybe God was preparing us for a daughter–and that this was a lesson (to lock our future daughter up, maybe).

Our concern then was if Phoebe was old enough safely carry babies and give birth to them. She’s so young and so tiny. We considered having her spayed which would terminate her pregnancy. I asked for advise over at the Cat Care Philippines group on Facebook, and while some commented that indeed she’s too young, I learned that yes, it’s safe for cats to give birth at that age. However, someone from CARA commented that the most sensible thing would be to have her spayed now. After much drama (from me!), Abet and I decided to have her spayed. I already called CARA for their schedule and was supposed to bring my kitty there last April 29. But after even more drama (from me again!), we decided to let our Beefy cat have her babies. We just couldn’t bear the thought of an abortion.

And so, there we were, at peace with Phoebe’s pregnancy and excited to meet her kitties. We agreed to keep all her babies, unless she has an all-black cat, which we would then give to Mario. So just imagine our surprise when last Wednesday, our cat started going in heat! Pregnant cats are not supposed to go in heat! I read that they may display signs of being in heat like becoming more affectionate, but what Phoebe went through was a full-blown heating period, complete with manliligaw kitties right outside our window every single night. The funny thing was that her belly kept getting smaller and smaller with each day of her estrus (heat) until it went back to normal size.

Funny. Phoebe had a false pregnancy. After all the drama and crying over whether or not to get rid of her babies, there were no babies pala. I didn’t realize that hysterical pregnancies also happened in cats, but apparently, it does. It’s more common in dogs than in cats, though. A false pregnancy happens when the cat releases an egg for no reason, or if the tom (male cate) she mated with had been neutered or is infertile.

We’re sad but at the same time relieved that she’s not pregnant. And we did learn our lesson, so she’s getting fixed next week after Uma and Sophie (we only have one cat carrier so we can’t get them all spayed at the same time). Also, because we realized that we can still afford to take care of another cat, we’re getting another rescue cat soon. The new cat is now at my parents’ house, we can’t wait to bring him over to ours.

Hay, Phoebe. You never run out of ways to keep us entertained.

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Cats Waiting in Windows

In her series entitled Fishbowl, San Diego-based graphic designer and photographer Rachel Bellinsky has a collection of photos of pets waiting in windows. Look at these cats, they seem to be waiting for their owners to come home.

These remind me of our little kitten who eagerly awaits by our window for our arrival. At least that’s what I like to think. (I’m no photographer, obviously.)

You may view the entire project on this Flickr page. Dog lovers, there are adorable pictures of dogs a-waiting, too.

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We have a tree!

We finally have a Christmas tree over here at Casa Mesa. Our very first Christmas tree together! *yipee* It’s a bit late, I know, but you know what they say: better late than never.

We didn’t want to spend too much on the tree since it’s just the two of us in our home. We’ll just upgrade once we have offspring. For now, we set a meager budget of P1000 for our Christmas tree. That one above us only P518. Amazing, right? We got the tree itself for P200 at Divisoria. I couldn’t believe the price tag when I saw it, the tree is almost 4 feet tall. It’s so cheap, even for Divi standards, and the quality is not bad, no damage or anything. The decor added up to P318: poinsettias at P168/dozen, 3 dozen balls at P40/dozen, and two strands of garlands at P15 each. The Starbucks ornament was an impulse buy last Christmas, it will serve as our ‘star’ in the meantime.

We’re going to have to do without Christmas lights because of Phoebe. I’ll have to add more ornaments because you can’t get any more boring than red and gold poinsettias and balls. I still have P482 left to spend, I’m thinking of getting candy canes and berries.

Phoebe thinks that the Christmas tree is one big giant toy:

She also thinks that the gifts are her bed:

Now that we have our tree, it’s really beginning to look a lot like Christmas in our home.

Is your tree up already?

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Phoebe & Josie

I learned from Meow by Kate that our first cat, Uma, is a calico cat — a black-white-orange cat which is automatically female. Our second cat, Sophie, happens to be a calico cat as well.

When I moved out from my parents’ house, Abet and I planned on getting a cat of our own. Naturally, I wanted a calico cat like the two kitty-girls I left at my parents.’ I asked my friends and on Facebook if anyone has a black-white-orange kitten I could adopt, but I didn’t get anything. We decided that we’ll just pick up whatever stray kitten we’ll find on the street — calico or not — or get a Siamese kitten for my birthday in December, whichever comes first.

Fortunately, this little furball found her way on the street near Abet’s mother’s house two Sundays ago:

Yep, I got my calico cat after all! Abet and his nephew Ycko found her near their gate, and after Abet confirmed with the neighbors that she didn’t belong to anyone in the area, she was mine. We named her Phoebe after my favorite F.R.I.E.N.D.S. character, and also because when we got her, she was “smelly cat, smelly cat.”

She was so small then. I assume she was month old at the time. Look at how tiny she was (with a tube of lipstick for size reference):

Abet and I are absolutely smitten with her. He would never admit it, but he’s just so in love with our Phoebe.

Phoebe likes my husband more than she likes me. She sleeps in our room — in our bed — and she snuggles beside Abet, not me.

In the 9 days since we got her, she has almost doubled in size, she knows how to go to the bathroom to wie-wie and pou-pou, she can climb up and down our stairs, and she now gets along with her Kuya Django, our Labrador Retriever.

We’re taking her to my parents’ house this weekend so she can meet her big sisters Uma and Sophie.

In other news, we were supposed to have a fourth calico, Josie:

My siblings found her on the street last Saturday. Her eyes were still closed when they found her, just like Uma when Momon picked her up. Sadly, Josie didn’t make it. She passed away yesterday. My sister May is devastated. She told me earlier that they already had plans for her. I’m sure they were planning on buying her treats and kitty items and putting her in the pockets of their nursing uniforms med school uniforms like they did with Uma when she was younger:

RIP, Josie. I guess for now, Phoebe is our bunso. I hope my siblings find another new kitten, and while I’m sure they’ll pick up any stray kitten that comes their way, I hope it’s going to be another calico cat.

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