Grocery Gripe

One of the things that surprised me since getting married was how much a household of two (and two dogs and a cat) could spend on groceries each month. I honestly did not think that we could spend so much for our basic needs. I mean, a few toiletries, household cleaning materials, food for two, a few ‘luho’ purchases, and pet food shouldn’t cost a lot, right?

In the four months we’ve been married, we overshot our monthly grocery budget every single time. Once, I was surprised at our grocery bill that I grabbed the receipt right after it came out of the receipt printer to check if there were any errors, but no, all purchases were valid. We really did shop for all those items.

Abet and I are trying to bring down our grocery bill (all expenses, actually) so we can save more for our planned trips, and of course, to pad our nest egg for when we have a baby. I’ll need to figure out how to go to our nearest wet market and how to buy produce, meat, and fish there. Also, we have come to realize that cooking for two is not very economical and practical, especially not when there’s a carinderia right across our house that serves good, cheap, and clean food. We’ll buy our viands more often instead of cooking (I’ll still cook brown rice, which we’ve been having since the start of the year). We’ll also have to cut down on our luxury purchases, like the Finetti and deli sausages and raspberry iced tea that we love so much.

I hope Abet and I reduce our grocery expenses, we sure need all the savings we can muster.

*photo from here

Dea, The Bathroom Cleaner

*Image from here

Since I became a housewife work-at-home wife, I have discovered that I actually enjoy doing housework, particularly cleaning and disinfecting our home.

Now, before you brand me as a domestic diva, let me just clarify first that this does not include organizing. I hate organizing, something my husband loves to do and is very good at, praise God. I especially cannot stand organizing our clothes/closets, that’s as much fun for me as being hooked up to ekg machines.

Anyway, my favorite chore of them all is cleaning our bathroom. I actually enjoy going down on all fours to scrub our bathroom tiles and our fixtures. I also enjoy buying cleaning products at the grocery. I now have a wide variety of brushes, sponges, cleansers, and disinfectants in my arsenal. More than anything, I enjoy the feeling of doing my business in a clean, sparkling, fresh-smelling loo.

I went home to my parents’ house earlier today and actually volunteered to clean one of their bathrooms. In fact, I told my mom that I’ll clean their bathrooms during my weekly visits home.

I guess you can say I’m addicted. Sorry, germs.

Wives should always be lovers too.

There’s this song entitled Wives and Lovers by my Lolo Frank (that’s Frank Sinatra to you) that I’ve taken to heart even before I got married:

Hey, little girl, comb your hair, fix your make-up,
soon he will open the door,
Don’t think because there’s a ring on your finger,
you needn’t try any more.
For wives should always be lovers too…

As a housewife* with no help, I’m on the fast track to losyang-dom. It’s so easy to let go when you’re in this situation. This is why I’ve become more vain than I have ever been in my entire life. This is why I ditched all my “bacon” pambahay undies (which I loved, huhu) and got myself all new underwear right after the wedding. This is why I take long, leisurely baths with all the works (body scrub, hair treatment, etc) daily. This is why I’m obsessed about moisturizing my face and applying shea butter body lotion and slathering my feet and hands with hand and foot cream. This is why I wear cologne and lipgloss even when I’m just at home.

I’m already living with that one person I want to impress the most, and I try my best to make sure that he’ll love coming home to me every day.

*I do have a job, but I work from home

 

 

I want colored ceramic knives!

Any fan of Junior Master Chef Australia would be familiar with the red ceramic knives that the kiddie chefs use on the show. I want those knives as badly as I want to cook like those kids.

spectrum ceramic knife

I want good knives when I’m married. Abet feels the same way. We plan on getting Zwilling J.A. Henckels knives this Christmas, we already got cute magnetic knife holders from Ikea last year. I can’t get over the colored ceramic knives, though. These are Scanpan Spectrum knives which are from Australia.

I must have me these knives. I’ll check for a local retailer, but if I have to order them all the way from Down Under, I will. I don’t care about a Martor USA utility knife, but I sure want these Spectrum knives in my kitchen.